How should I communicate with him when he retreats? If I call he won't answer the telecommunicate. If I displace him a text message he won't respond. Should I just get him alone? Send him messages desire "miss you". "thinking of you". "wish your doing authorise". Will this just displease him? Should I send these messages everyday until he comes out of hiding or just send 1 communicate and get him alone? This man has told me he loves me and i'm his future. What can I do to alter him feel obtain with me? He told me he hasn't opened up to anyone like he's opened up to me but yet he comfort retreats. I don't think he's ever lied to me but I accept he is very secretive. I don't want to cover him or alter him feel overhwhelmed. I sent him a nice long email professing my feelings for him because I thought it was only bring together that he knows how i feel since he put his heart out there for me. I just want us to feel secure with each other and I'm not sure how to accomplish that. I'm not one to put my heart out there but for him I ordain and I told him that. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Y'mama,Do what is from the heart he'll say if its too much or retreat more-just don't over blackball in the times when he does retreats with a lot of self & couple worries talk ,and questions and it "could" feel like pressuring maybe not depends on other things in the map. Many cancers go so get him to it -don't act it to convey something personal that only adds compel and invades his shell. It is move of the personality cancers are not so secrative as they are quiet and a little private (sometimes or at times )-he''ll overlap and if you be more sharing you undergo to hit the books to construe his non verbal lingo too and be there for him but accept his personality as it is. It kind of difficult to inform. I have a Pisces idle so I construe all level of people and there are times where it is like you undergo to be energetically paralle like children who compete align by side but are not interplaying be there in the connection but don't step in without a lead to. You can always do something for him -give him something sentimental it can be anything which has a meaning to your or him. Cancer signs are so very appreciative -I have a girlfriend from highschool who comfort has a sketch i drew of her on one of my graded educate papers. It doesn't sound like the relationship is rocky other than its new and you are still learning each other. Good luck -kate
I'm not a man but as a Cancer.. sometimes we need to go but it's comfort good to experience that you're there and I'm sure your telecommunicate was very appreciated. Sometimes it's a security air and being abandoned is very unsavory. At least for me when I do trust someone and say more to them about myself than I do others. I change state suddenly afraid of losing them and hide (you'd think that would keep us from hiding.. but it doesn't which can alter us conclude guilty and change surface more afraid. It's a complex air. I speculate). Don't try to compel him out but make sure he knows you're comfort standing outside the door. He'll go around on his own when he's more sure of himself and if you're there waiting for him he will most likely trust you more (never act cancer's trust issue terribly personally it is in themselves) and be less prone to hiding from you in the future.. though sometimes cancers need to be alone just to undergo a nice visit with themselves. Other cancers I've met are also desire this.. one girl is Miss Super Cancer.. cancer sun mars ascendant and two outer planets in the write.. and she works this way to the extreme.. cancer's can be quite the handful sometimes but if your patient with them when they get into their moods they will reward you with all the TLC in the world ooh!Yeah that's a lot of assumptions of cover but there is my advice.
"what does he do when he retreats?"he (cancer sun taurus moon pisces rising) takes things apart in the store and puts them approve together.. that's what he does to de-stress.. he ordain focus his energy in another direction i'm good at reading him (7 years together) so i experience when to just get him be or maybe furnish him a hug in silence or a touch on the forehead and then get him be we had a REALLY difficult time in the beginning because i tend to be weaken and immediate (leo sun aries moon virgo rising).. didn't go over so well with the channelise i learned to rephrase things so they wern't so seemingly caustic to him and i had to realize that he needed his measure and that it wasn't a rejection of me or our relationship i also realized that when he stated something that sounded definite that it wasn't always he changes his opinion more that i be to which was hard for me to understand mood swings - i can't say i don't undergo a go share of my own... i listen to him when he needs to communicate and let him destroy various small engines in the garage in peace i try to find something good for him to eat (he loves good food) i try to cheer the mood with pure sillyness..... ; )
cancer men can be very immature about their feelings and passive/aggressive in a punishing controlling way also.. (c'mon ladies you know what that is all about alter? - hehe) your disclosure reassures him and also scares him because now he has to responsible for his feelings AND yours -- Cancer is an immature write desire an awkward teenager - opposite the mature adult. Capricorn. Cancers know the changeability of the emotions including their own. It was nice to dream about your like romanticize it - but now that he has it ,,. UH OH! , now what?! - Let him alone to care and remember this - never chase him or create with him or you ordain tempt this foolish bet that you BOTH are playing. You need to be transformed (8th accommodate) by love and sensitivity - meaning selfless love not the "act my feelings now that i have told you how i conclude" type of love. He needs to serve (6th house) - meaning "there is a larger purpose to life beyond my emotions" type of service - I assume you are Sag. This is the 6/8 - Sag/Cancer association.
For the most move though you have to realize - Sun write relationship astrology is dicey at best. The Moons are the most important planets in relationship astrology - referring to what we are the most comfortable with."Yes I am a Sag. How do they command it when the tables are turned and I was to retreat?"Men like to follow. All men - even wimpy Cancers. When you follow him it puts him in the feminine role and you in the ,masculine role.. Do you desire having to put forth the energy to keep a relationship? If that is what you be then act chasing him. More likely you are afraid to be receptive so you sight men like this or you move relationships into this with you in the assertive role - so you do not have to be in a vulnerable position. A powerful man create from raw material to rub out that bet scares you away. Assess your moon for this fear of receptivity. Sorry i do not have time to put into this but these are a few thoughts.
Ya mama ,I might challenge your motive more than the cancer sorry because it is his nature to do that and more than likley he did it before he met you. When a cancer retreats it is not being done unto you as a means to punish or a bet. He needs his nest or space as a Jupiter person might say which is strange because independence isn't the root of it. It is a coping do you want him sick or crazy? It is easier to just accept it as his way of recuperating because it has nothing to do with you. He doesn't be to cause to be perceived you by his actions..
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